Archive for December, 2009

choicings

As consumers we have LOTS of choice.  Especially since the ‘big box’ store arrived.  Seems every store sells everything.  It’s just a matter of whether you enjoy the look, feel, prices, service, brands, convenience/proximity to your house.  I’m not particular about most things, but do have some items I’ll only buy at particular places.

When it comes to coffee, I enjoy Starbucks over Second Cup.  My family has a long-time affiliation with the Cup and we have friends, who, missing the Cup overseas, had a chance encounter with one of the Cup’s exec’s over in India on a business trip, and he personally sent them a sweet stash of their favorites to keep the addiction well-fed (sorry, run-on sentence).  I think that’s great.  But Starshmucks still tastes better to me.  

So today, convenience won and lined up at the mall’s Second Cup,  I found myself having a conversation with the barista about whipped cream and it’s appropriateness on EVERY beverage (I was for and she seemed against).

‘Have you ever had the apple cider at SB’s?’ I asked.

‘OH everytime I go there I just HATE the service’ the ever-growing-louder-and-more-obnoxious barista replied.

‘Funny, I love their service’ I reply. (How can you fault, ‘good morning, thank-you for choosing Starbucks, how can I help you?’  or the ONE time I was dissatisfied with my latte, coming in the next time and mentioning the problem and receiving a FREE one????)

‘Oh every time I go there it’s just (insert any experience insulting to Starbucks) … BLAH BLAH BLAH’.

I had a similar experience at Sears just before Christmas.  I had gone to the Bay first to look for a particular gift and dealt with a snarky sales associate who, frankly, wasn’t helpful at all.  So I ditched and went to Sears.  When I couldn’t find what I was looking for at Sears, the friendly associate asked if I had checked anywhere else.  I mentioned the Bay and why I hadn’t given them my business.  She proceeded to say she had ALWAYS had terrible service there.  One: I didn’t ask about YOUR experience.  Two: complaining about the competition is making you look bad.

But seriously people, say ‘oh I’m so sorry to hear you had a bad experience’ and try do better by me than the last guy!

Like I said before, we have tons of choice as consumers.  Sometimes I feel strongly enough about something to stick to one brand, one store for a particular something.  And other times, I don’t.  If you happen to be in competition for my business, don’t put down the other guy.  I’m smart enough to figure out where my money should go myself.  And that decision is based on what I like.  Not what you don’t.

made it…

Christmas shouldn’t be an exhausting time of year.  But it is.  Even for people who don’t have to work through it.  If I wasn’t at the hospital for 50% of the four days on/around Christmas (the other 50% of the time was sleeping, with a small bit of socializing), I would have been baking or cooking or doing something almost as tiring.  What’s up with that?  Total baloney if you ask me.  I am finally off for a few days and have some serious resting to do.  My sniffy nose has steadily worsened over the past few days and I worry it will snowball into something weirder and less wonderful.  I haven’t been sick in a year and a half (except for that one time I ate at the airport in Colombo, Sri Lanka, but that wasn’t the flu…).

Anyway in order to take the stress out of Christmas (Christress?), I suggest the following be adopted as universal Christmas celebrating rules:

1. Every meal is a pot luck.  You want to hang out with people?  Everyone brings a small bit of the meal so the work is shared.  No need for Christmas cooking martyrs.  The world already sees too many senseless deaths the rest of the year.

2. Same goes for the clean up.  Plus, if you’re the host, you did the pre-cleaning, and sponsored the dishes/cutlery so you sit out on the clean-up.  Unless you have kids.  After all, that’s what you had them for in the first place.  Cheap labor.

3. No presents.  This ridiculous scramble at the last second to buy something…anything!…produces anxiety attacks in front of Radio Shack, nightmares and dry heaves!  You have a whole year, a whole life time to spot something special, wrap it up and present it.  Why Christmas?  If you see something in April.  Grab it.  Gift it!  If you’re that stuck on packages under the tree, save it till December.  Or get a tree in April.  You choose.

4.  Plan ahead.  I screwed this rule up this year and paid the price.  Violated by Christmas mall shoppers (vultures, really) and paper-cut (cutted?) by quick wrap jobs, it will take me weeks, maybe months to recover.

5. Start a new food tradition at home.  Imagine how much LESS stress you’ll have by not requiring a 100lb perfectly cooked fresh turkey for dinner.  Tuna sandwiches are the new stuffing and bird.

6. Time is the best gift you can give.  And what’s stressful about pleasant conversation over a steaming coffee and chocolate chip cookie?  As a result: 10$ can buy a great gift.  And it doesn’t have to be given between Dec 21st and Dec 28th.

7. Do something nice for someone else.  A lady and her husband brought the staff at the ER Tim’s coffees on Christmas morning.  There are only a few Timmy’s open on Christmas day, and they hunt them down and order 20 small coffees because the coffee shop isn’t open in the hospital on Christmas.  How nice is that?  Simple.  Cost effective.  And makes a difference to a bunch of people who aren’t at home on Christmas morning.

Go forth and be less stressed over the holidays.

I’m going to crawl into bed now and heal.

a little bit of Olympic spirit

As a Canadian, I’m pretty excited that my country and all the peeps in it are anticipating the Olympics in 2010.  I’ve seen lots of pictures recently of the torch passing through all kinds of communities (great and small, Arctic and Southern and everything in between).  On Boston.com they do this thing called ‘The Big Picture’ and one of the instalments shows locals in Inuvik and in Resolute Bay, among many Northern communities.  That excites me!  Everyone should share in the fun!
At the end of a long night shift in the ER I stood in the main foyer at McMaster hospital and watched the torch arrive, tearful speeches given, the National Anthem sung, and the next torch lit and carried outside into the dark morning.
I’m not sure if it was the exhaustion I was feeling after being up all night, the dry air, the pride I have for my country, or what, but I got teary listening to the little girl sing our anthem.  Was a nice experience, probably the only bit of the Olympics I’ll get to share in up close.
After the ceremony I went back to the unit with my RBC clapper (long rubber balloon that was used to bang against a hand to make a thunder noise in place of clapping) and donked a few peeps on the head with it.  Donking is so much fun :)

Stunned.

While waiting for the bank to open this morning at 09:29:

Old man to me: Do you know Tiger Woods?
Me: Excuse me?
Old man: Do you know Tiger Woods?
Me: Uh, yeah.
Old man: You look like one of those girls.
Me: What girls?
Old man: You know, the girls he was ‘with’.

Awkward silence.

REALLY?  I mean, I don’t even know what to say about my apparent home-wrecking ways.  Was that supposed to be small talk?  A compliment?  A horrifying insult?

 ….Weird.

the green grass is back again

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(Another lovely flower from the backyard at Thanksgiving)

In true (recent) Ontario-winter-style, the snow is melting and the green grass is showing once again.  We’ve had two false starts.  There are still buds on the trees from the last one.  Does that damage trees I wonder?  Are they supposed to freeze up at a certain stage in dormancy in order to ‘wake’ healthfully in the spring?  By tomorrow all the snow will be gone here by Lake Ontario and the only mark of imminent/present winter will be the Christmas lights up on every other house in this neighbourhood.  And the Christmas cups at Starshmucks.

I gotta say, I am so in the mood to decorate my house for Christmas.  One large house-shaped problem though.  No house.  If I had more time on my hands, the inside of our room would be decked to the hall.  Alas, this new job is sucking a significant amount of energy from me.  Which is good.  After all, I want to be good at what I do.  I’m learning fast.  Making significant strides every shift.  And, considering the constant flow of traffic at this Southern Ontario ER, will likely require new sneakers by New Years with all the running I do in a shift.  Pretty soon I’ll be able to draw blood from anything that moves, suss out the priorities in a stack of 23 charts of patients waiting to be seen, and manage to chart on every one of them in crazy detail and competence.  Watch out world, I’m armed with size 6.5 gloves and motivated!